Very very confused

When your mum starts saying things like "So I guess you guys have had your fill of each other already?" and "Are you sure you have to always be out till so late with him? Don't believe nothing has happened.", you start wondering why she even said she wanted you to "hopefully find a nice boy and settle down one day".

I mean c'mon. How am I suppose to "find a nice guy" if I'm not allowed to know him better through our outings and chats? Am I suppose to do it the old-fashioned way and go through an arranged marriage kind of procedure where I get to sleep with my man on our 2nd meeting(if I'm lucky)? He might turn out to be some kind of sex pervert or wife abuser but I'll be stuck with him coz I'm someone who doesn't believe in divorce.

Awesome ain't it? What kind of times do we live in these days? My dad tells me to behave more like a lady, be demure coz nice boys like such girls. He calls that being realistic. I call that fake advertising. My response to him was,"Well what worked then doesn't work now. Look what happened to you and mum. You always complain she's not the woman you married."

(-_-)"

People never seem to notice how similar they are to what they are saying to other people. No one is ever in a position to judge or give advice unless they have gone through the exact same experience as the person experiencing the problem at that very moment. No judgement coz none of us are angels and we will never be so perfect and pure. It's amazing how some people think the world of themselves and try to impose their "perfect being" ideas on other people when they are probably the worst of the lot. Like a fucking rabbid mange infested vermin at the corner of some dirty street.

Sensitivity is something I've always had some issues with. I pride myself as someone who lives and let lives. If it's no biggie and doesn't kill me, it probably isn't really worth my attention. Everyone is entitled to say what they wanna say and being overly sensitive can be such a killjoy and deal breaker in so many situations. The worst kind are the ones that give themselves the priviledge to judge and comment about other people around them but get too sensitive when the people in question turn around to judge them back.

It's a mad mad world we live in. Grin and bear it. And when you can't take it anymore, bitch slap some asshole.

Tolora