Stupid heads

When will guys ever learn? When? I'm getting really really fucking exasperated!

First was my dad, then came my bf and now my brother. Who's next? My dog? Sheesh!

I don't think I ask for much. I just want them to be more sng mok( which means alert in Cantonese). That's all! But in return they throw all the blame back on me and say I'm the one being nit picky, the one who's not clear, the one who complains too much.

Honestly, I wouldn't complain so much if you guys were smarter! I'm already putting aside the fact that guys do not understand the word emotional and initiative and YET, they still fail to please.

What is it ah? Seriously is there something we ladies should know about you guys which may make this world a much better place to live in? If there is just goddamnit TELL US! I don't understand why there has to always be this division between both genders and for what reason/s? Only because we fail to conform to each others' standards in life?

Wa lau eh....really ah...can die one you know...

I think(and I realllyyyyyy think this!), guys need to understand this. Those cutesy gals you see on TV in your favourite Taiwanese and Japanese dramas who take 20 episodes to let the guy of their dreams know how they feel about them and who are always so sweet and submissive and docile? Ain't gonna happen hun. When we complain about how technology is murdering propoer human relations, you tell us to get a life coz it's the 21st century. Isn't it time for you too then to wake up and realize this is the real world and no way in HELL are you gonna get everything you want.

And excuse me ladies but if I may say this. If a gal is docile and sweet and oh-so-tolerant to a fault, something is damn wrong with her. Really! This is no longer the generation where couples meet when the lady is washing clothes along the riverside and the guy happens to be walking by and spots her pretty side profile and decides to hoover at that very area for the next 2 months while the 2 of them continue glancing at each other shyly. Can you see the cloud of flies starting to form?

We have evolved (yes women have evolved. I can't say the same for men.), to the point where we are educated, smart and eloquent with our feelings. And because we are emotional creatures we have also become more tactful in dealing with the more primitive sex. Do you realize it is always the gals having to deal with the guys instead of the other way round? Okay not always but most of the time.

It's a sick revelation. How can this be happening? And in this time and age? Shouldn't things be so much better now since we have so many new inventions and seminars to aid in improving our relationships?

Or maybe everything boils down to us taking each other and everything around us for granted. We do it so well too. And then when we lose it we sit on the floor,stamp our feet and cry for mother.

What the Fuck?????

There is definitely something wrong with us but mostly,there is definitely something wrong with the male species.

And maybe,just maybe, if women really lived on Venus and men really lived on Mars, we may just get along so much better.

If only. For now we will just have to share this planet with apes. Now you know why the movie "Planet of the Apes" was done. There's an underlying meaning!

I don't even have the strength to slap my forehead anymore. I think I've said and done too much to reinforce my point.

"The men don't get it". UOB's right. They definitely don't and they probably never will.

Cheers!
Tolora