How did things get this way?

When I was much younger, I use to diss what the older people would say when they looked at us and went,"You young people nowadays must make things so complicated!" Now I finally understand how they feel.

Now I find myself asking the even younger generation,"Why must you youngsters make things so complicated?" Everything from work to personal relationships are made to look so hard to handle even though I look at it and feel it can settled in less then 3 easy steps.

I was watching a video on this guy who cheated on his girlfriend of 2 years on Valentine's Day. Apparently the fella was caught red-handed on a date with another girl when he was suppose to be working over time as he told his girlfriend. She exclaimed," I've been walking along Orchard Road the whole day on my own coz you said you will be working over time and cannot spend the day with me!" That part made me feel sorry for the girlfriend. I've had guys who cheated on me before but I've been lucky I've never caught them red-handed. God knows what would have happened to their Father's Day if I did anyway. But I can roughly understand how hurting it must have been. If this video wasn't all just an act la. Anyway even if it was, I'm sure such things do happen really and can you imagine how terrible the girl must feel? Some more her supposed boyfriend pushed her away and shouted at her to stop it. Geez....

On the side I can understand why some people would find the video fake too. The 3rd party was trying to rationalize the situation? In what way is that...well,rational? The most important rule when you are dating a guy who is still attached is to keep your big mouth shut and keep away from the limelight as much as you can. You never EVER speak up and try to rationalize things coz there is nothing for you to rationalize. The only thing you should do is push the guy in front to settle the situation himself or walk away. The fact is the couple is more in the right to rationalize you instead of you rationalizing them.

I speak like I'm so experienced in this which,in some warped way, I am. I've been through it twice so even if I don't know a whole lot,I should know something right?

But such experiences make one very very jaded. Honestly you don't wanna know how jaded I am. I can fall in love but I can fall out of love very easily too. My powers of detachment are so amazingly strong you'll be blown away. Tan can vouch for it.

For now,I'll let the road take me wherever it wants to.

Cheers!
Tolora